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In the Chicago Tribune, Megan Crepeau decodes Congressman Allen West’s (R, My-Way-or-the-Highway) charge that Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz is “not a lady” because she dared to disagree with one of his political stances.

After pointing out that the Congresswoman is neither a British peer nor a 19th Century robber baron’s trophy wife, she concludes with

OK, obviously these are ridiculous standards to judge any woman by these days — so much so that the word “lady” has started to be reappropriated by young folks like me, who use the word casually and ironically. I start instant message conversations to my female friends with “hey lady,” and it’s funny because I know the friend I’m chatting with is parked on her couch being as slovenly and unladylike as I am. “Ask a Lady” is a popular advice column on the website thehairpin.com. The website’s male equivalent is “Ask A Dude,” which gives you an idea of how seriously anyone takes the word “lady” these days.

But West takes it very seriously, and here’s why: When he said “lady,” he was speaking in code. To old-fashioned conservative men like West, “lady” just means “someone who agrees with me,” or at least “someone who disagrees with me quietly.” To be a “lady” is to be docile, calm and uncritical. West thinks that since his colleague is just a woman, not a lady, she doesn’t deserve to “be afforded due respect.”

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