Dis Coarse Discourse 0

Richard Kyte takes issue with the growing (and casual) use of profanity in public and in the pubic discourse.

I must say, and perhaps it is a reflection of my age, that I tend to agree with many of his points. To use an old framing, I got no issues with locker room language, so long as it remains in the locker room and not, to pick two random examples, in news conferences and song lyrics. I do not necessarily agree with all his points, but I think his article is well worth a read. Here’s a bit of what he has to say:

I know what those who defend their use of profanity are likely to say: “I don’t mean anything by it,” or “It’s just an expression.” McWhorter (John McWhorter, author of Nine Nasty Words–ed.) insists that profanity is not really language in the usual sense. A profane utterance uses words as a gesture — a spontaneous eruption generated by the right side of the brain. It has no connection to reason.

(snip)

The most fundamental principle of social order in the West is that all people are equal. The social attitude corresponding to that principle is respect.

Aside:

Yes, I know that the “fundamental principle” to which he refers is oft violated and, indeed, seems these days to be falling into eclipse. Perhaps showing persons respect, however pro forma that “respect” may be, could help make that “fundamental principle” seem more real.

To put it another way, what the hell is wrong with just being polite to others, even if you disagree with or, indeed, contemn them?