The Ask Date Con 0
We have all seen them.
Planes dragging banners with marriage proposals over sports palaces, elaborate invitations on AFV, and the like.
I probably would not have realized this, having been on the other side of the asking-girls-out divide, but Emily Hoeven raises an excellent point–there is a sadistic, manipulative element in the showiness. She writes of prom dates:
Many years ago, Second Son acted in community theatre. After the last performance of one of his plays, the director ostentatiously proposed to one of the actors, on stage, before the audience, after the curtain calls.
She accepted on stage.
Second Son told me that afterwards, in the green room, she ripped her now-ex fiance a new one.
They did, eventually, get married, but it took him six months to recover the ground that he lost with that one ostentatious gesture.
